Here are some ways to help choose your path:
1. Listen to your instincts.
This primal tool is generally right.You should listen to your instincts but don't become a victim. Don't just move to Idaho because your instincts said to move there, but make a plan. Acknowledge the feeling then ask yourself why. Do you want to move there because a friend is? Or are there other reasons?
2. Give yourself time.
Make a decision and then think about it for a day or two. If you decide to go into PR and two days later catch yourself thinking about how much you love something else and hate all of your PR classes, you need to stop and re-evaluate. Make a decision you are comfortable with two days later, in fact it would be even better if you were excited.
3. Write it down.
Write your thoughts down. I always make a pros and cons list before a big decision. It helps clarify and organize my thoughts, and it's easier to discuss ideas when written down. Seeing the things you like versus what you dislike may really open your eyes.
I recently bought a new car- in my head it seemed dumb to sell of a nice, low mileage, paid off Explorer and take out a loan to buy a Prius. But when I wrote it down and really thought things through, I was spending $500 on gas a month for the explorer. Now, my car payment is $290 and gas costs about $120 a month. I'm saving money.
Good luck to everyone who is about to begin a new venture. If you have have any suggestions on what helps you make a good decision, please share!